Hello ladies, so by now I am sure some of you have seen my comments on some of your blogs and are thinking who is this girl? I do not really blog myself as I am just starting out and don't have much to say but I thought it was slightly unfair that I always read your blogs (quite informative and funny as-well) but I have never written anything about myself, who I am what I do e.t.c. I don't really know what "category" I'd put myself in as to what you would can call me but the closest thing I can think of is an "amateur-sb" which sounds harsh but what else can I say? I am under the age of 0f 20, I live in the second largest city in the United Kingdom but maybe moving in September for university. I have been on just a few sugar dates nothing much came out of it, I was naive at the least and didn't have much insight into the "Sugar World" which is no more as I have been reading your blogs and experiences (I am incredibly grateful for that). The thing is that I live with my parents so it is quite hard to actually be an SB without raising suspicions as my mother is practically my best-friends, she always wants to know who I am with, where I am with and what I am doing so this is the reason why I haven't really had much success in the Sugar World. I have 2 sugar accounts, SA.com and SD.com I haven't had much success on either of the two and I do not know the reasons for this maybe I am asking for too much, the men just aren't interested - god knows. I did exchange messages with one pot who was living in Spain but was willing to fly me out twice a month for £2000. I was quite fond of him until he told me what he would like from me.
- To be able to call me racist names e.g "THE N WORD" - Is he out of his DAMN MIND?
- Sex from the get go - SORRY SWEETNESS BUT I WILL NOT JUMP INTO BED WITH YOU JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE GIVEN ME CASH, I'd prefer it to come naturally like if we actually have good chemistry and all.
- He told me he is into sex where he would inflict pain on me, tie me up and all sorts of other things, it seemed quite sadistic to me, I have only had sex with a few guys and this was more than 2 years ago so I am practically a virgin, I would like to "go slow".
But anyway, after reflecting on what he wanted from me I then decided that it wasn't the type of arrangement I was looking for as I really wouldn't enjoy being verbally abused.
I also haven't had much success on SD.com because of the fact that you have to pay like £20+ or something like that P/M which I mean, it should be free for us you know, I have however received quite a lot of messages from men who seem "decent" but I feel as if that site is for men who are actually looking for love - which isn't what I am looking for, but I guess I can string them along? What do you think about this sugars, have you successfully stringed a man and actually received gifts/£/$ from him without putting out?
Anyway, I will hopefully be moving to Cumbria in September if I get an unconditional offer from the uni that has given me an interview, on my SD account I have changed my location to Cumbria and I have actually received quite a few emails from men who live in Cumbria (looks promising). It would be great if I get the offer from uni because I could then study and have an arrangement which would make it easier for me to concentrate on my studies as I wouldn't have to find a demanding job but have an arrangement where by I am his ONLY when I am WITH him. I'd ideally be looking for something around £3k P/M meeting 2/3 times P/M.
I have noticed that there aren't many UK SB bloggers so if you are one, feel free to just say hi so we can communicate and share tips and advice on things such as sites as it is quite differet here from the US, for example sites like SUGAR-SUGAR don't really have many genuine SD in the UK.
Thank you for reading my blog. xo
